Tired of reading articles written about what women are looking for that are totally bogus? I don’t blame you. Before I was very experienced with women, I trusted the advice of what turned out to be completely clueless dolts. Most advice articles on the subject are written as a way to certain men believe that they can get laid just as they are. Looks don’t matter, right? It’s all about personality, isn’t it? Those answers and more are revealed in this “No-BS” article on what women REALLY are looking for in a fling partner…
She Wants to Fuck a Fantasy
You can be 6’3, have a handsome face, and a toned body. Think that’s good enough to get laid? Maybe for a one-night stand with a woman that’s just needing a quick fuck. But if you want an ongoing sexual relationship, you MUST be her fantasy. A woman’s sexual fantasy is more about who you are and what you can do for her than what you look like. Every woman has a different fantasy. One girl might want a Country Boy. Another might be into the Bad Boys. Another might dig a Businessman. To be attractive to her, you must play a specific role in her fantasy.
A Charming Personality
I know a lot of guys that think looks are everything when it comes to hooking up with women. Sure, having great looks never hurt. But they aren’t everything. Even when it comes to friends with benefits relationships, there’s nothing sexier to a woman than a charming personality. You don’t have to be the Most Interesting Man in the World. But you do need to know how to humor her and prove that you have some game. Women automatically assume that nice, boring guys are also boring in bed. Their assumptions are probably false, but that doesn’t matter. All that matters is how she perceives you. You can’t convince her to think differently. Therefore, it’s important to NOT be a boring guy when talking to her.
Good In Bed = She Keeps Coming Back for More
Even if you are her perfect fantasy, she will lose interest the very instant she finds out you’re a horrible lay. The first time you have sex with her, you better get her off. Better yet, get her off a few times. At least. Women on fling websites are in desperate need of good sex. Otherwise, why would they sign-up for these sites? A charming personality and playing a role that fulfills her fantasy is important. But they become worthless abilities if you aren’t good in bed. Work on improving your sexual stamina, building your confidence in bed, and do some research on how to please a woman. It’s really not that hard even if you’re inexperienced.