A couple of years ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years because she turned out to be a dirty, cheating whore. Apparently, my cock wasn’t good enough for her, which is why I found her riding the next-door neighbor in our bed one evening. If dude weren’t 100 pounds heavier than me, I totally would have beat his ass. Instead, I moved my stuff out of the apartment and decided I was done with relationships and just wanted to fuck a bunch of random skanks.
That very night, I put on my best outfit, slapped on some cologne and headed down the street to a bar called Aces. I had an “I don’t give a shit” attitude that night. I was going to walk into Aces, flirt with some bitches, and fuck (at least) one of them senseless. Nothing was going to stop me. Or so I thought. To make a long story short, I didn’t walk out of Aces with anyone but my pathetic self. I didn’t even flirt with any women despite the bar being filled with cuties. I totally pussed out and realized I had no game.
Leaving without a girl was very depressing, especially since I was drunk. But I wasn’t about to give up. The following weekend, I went back out to the bars with some friends. I told them I needed to get some pussy and they did too. The results were the same. I spent at least 8 hours between that Friday and Saturday night inside bars and got absolutely no digits. The only potential I had for sex was this 40-something drunken fat skank that couldn’t find a ride home because her dirtbag boyfriend ditched her. I did give her a ride home and refused to take her up on her offer for sex. The thought of banging such a repulsive looking, morbidly obese drunk woman just wasn’t enticing.
I learned a few things about trying to get laid in bars…
-It can become VERY expensive (beer ain’t cheap, brotha!)
-If you have NO offline game, you have no shot at getting laid
After this weekend, I was done trying to find hookups in bars. Sure, I still go out to the bars for drinks with my friends every once in a while. But I don’t go there specifically looking for sex. I just go for the social gathering and to have a good time. As soon as I changed my strategy for meeting women and began using fling websites, I was able to get laid consistently with no problems. It’s easier to have “game” online because it’s easier to talk to a girl online. Plus, the women online are usually looking for a regular friends with benefits situation and not just a one-night stand.