You met this cutie online. She’s expressed her interest in you. She likes your photos. She has agreed to go out on a date with you. You know that if you impress her, she’s going to fuck you. So you’ve been imagining having sex with her all week. But now it’s the day of the date and you’re becoming more and more anxious. With that anxiety comes nervousness. So now your brain is starting to freeze and your mind is going numb.
You stop and think, “am I really going to do this?” Yes, you are going to do this. And you’re going to have an amazing time. You WILL impress her to the point where she can’t wait for you to rip her clothes off. You’re NOT going to wet your pants in front of her, spill your drink on her lap, or ramble on incoherently for an hour, and she won’t take one look at you and walk away. You are going to be everything she wants in a man and the night will go smoothly. You see, this is how you need to think. Have a positive mindset and EXPECT to get laid. If you do – more often than not – you will get laid.
#1 Reason Some Men Don’t Get Laid: They are a nervous wreck on a date
You’ve already accomplished the most difficult part of getting laid – convincing a woman you met online to go out on a date with you. Seriously, that’s the hard part. You don’t need to knock her socks off on a date. You just need to NOT screw things up. And you wont screw things up by being a nervous wreck if you try out these mental exercises before leaving the house…
Stuart Smalley Trick: Remember Al Franken’s “Stuart Smalley” character on Saturday Night Live back in the early 1990’s? It seems silly, but standing in front of the mirror and telling yourself that you’re a fucking sexy beast is a trick I use to make myself feel good. It won’t work if you try it once. But if you say it over and over again, eventually you’re going to believe it. Being confident with the way you look is really all you need to succeed with women. Feel good, look good. That’s the truth.
Pump Iron: Again, feeling good about the way you look is ALL you need to convince women you are attractive. Most guys do not understand or believe this. But it is a FACT. Women are attracted to CONFIDENCE more than anything. Don’t believe me? Ask ANY woman. It’s also a fact that when a guy pumps iron, he then feels good about his appearance. So in the morning before your date, pump a little iron and you’ll probably feel good about the way you look.
Crank Some Tunes: I never leave the house until I’ve busted out some old-school Tupac. And then I listen to it in the car on my way to the bar. It gets me in the mood and I have been doing this before EVERY date for the past year or so. It truly does work wonders. You’d be surprised.