Characteristics of a PERFECT Fuck Buddy

I’ve been doing this for quite a while. I’ve met some great and not-so great women online. What I look for in a woman is someone that will be an enjoyable lay AND will keep coming back for more. I’ve gotten to the point where I can pretty much know whether or not that’s going to happen before ever getting into bed with her. Call it a natural instinct, if you will, but it’s a valuable skill to have.


The following characteristics weren’t written to try and convince you the type of woman you should be attracted to. They were written as way to list the specific characteristics that make for a perfect fuck buddy (regardless of height, weight, facial structure, skin tone, ethnicity, booty shape, etc.). The woman you choose to hookup with should possess ALL of these qualities…

You can make for a perfect fuck buddy

You can make for a perfect fuck buddy

You find her physically attractive

This is #1. We men are visual creatures. I’m not going to tell you what you should look for physically in a woman because we all have different tastes. Personally, I go for shorter women that have a nice, curvy ass, brown hair, and tan skin. That’s what I’m attracted to.

You find women physically attractive & hot

You find women physically attractive & hot

She lives within a short driving distance

I’ve hooked up with a few women that lived far away. They were mostly great gals and decent lays. But it’s hard to get it when you want it if she doesn’t live nearby. Plus, it becomes expensive to have to travel to see her. Look for women within a 30 minute drive or a woman that has no problem coming to see you when you need it.

You do NOT have conflicting schedules

Compatibility and proximity really doesn’t matter if your schedules are conflicting. If she’s working 8-5 and you’re working the night shift, when will you have time to get together? Find a woman that works the same hours as you and doesn’t have 5 kids at home to raise.

You are into the same things sexually

It’s very important to be compatible sexually, which means just physical attraction isn’t enough. Favoring the same positions, knowing how to get each other off without extra effort, and sharing the same fetishes and fantasies leads to good sexual chemistry.

Looking for fantasies leads to good sexual chemistry

Looking for fantasies leads to good sexual chemistry

She’s looking for something long-term, but not a relationship

I don’t do one-night stands anymore. They’re pointless. If I’m chatting with a girl online that is only looking for a quick fuck, I stop talking to her. I want a woman that’s going to be regularly available for me so that I don’t always have to be on the lookout for someone to fuck. I want to be able to call her up, tell her I’m horny, and have her come over right then.