There are many different topics worth discussing on a first fling date. I could definitely create a list of those. But for this post, I’m going to discuss topics you MUST avoid. Knowing what NOT to say is equally important. The reason these topics should be avoided is simple; you won’t get laid if you bring them up. She’ll probably ditch you instead of fucking you.
My problem with bringing up religion is two-fold. First off, you’re trying to fuck this chick, so how would a religious discussion help get you into her pants? “God has called upon me to fuck you senseless”. That line probably wouldn’t work. The other reason is you could offend her. Religion is a sensitive subject. Just don’t bring it up under any circumstances.
Politics are similar to religion in that people are very passionate about them. Because people are passionate about their political affiliations, they become easily offended by differing views. Again, why would you bring politics into a discussion with a chick you’re trying to bang? Politics and sex do not go hand-in-hand.
Sure, you want to get to know your potential fuck buddy a little. But you don’t need to know too much about her, nor does she need to know too much about you. Fling date conversations should be about proving you’re sexually compatible and interesting people.
I love to watch, play, think about, and talk sports. I’m a total sports junkie. However, my fling dates would never know that about me. I don’t bring them up on the date. At most, I’ll make a small mention of what team I root for if she says she’s a fan of the same team. Other than that, not a peep.
This one seems pretty obvious. But there are some guys that spend way too much time playing video games that are really bad with women. It’s almost like they don’t know how to discuss anything else. She doesn’t care about your Final Fantasy expertise.