Perhaps the most common mistake made by men on a fling date is not picking up on her cues that she wants to fuck. This mistake is costly because if you don’t strike while the iron’s hot, you probably never will. Women lose interest in a man quickly. If she’s into you and doesn’t sense you’re into her, she’ll lose interest in you. And once she loses interest, she’s unlikely to change her mind.
Once you realize she’s digging your chili, it’s time to make a move. Don’t let the conversation last too long. You run the risk of ending up in the “Friend Zone” if you do. So pay attention for the clues listed below. Once you notice them, ask her if she’d like to come back to your place to continue the date. Women that give off these 5 cues will almost NEVER shoot you down if you immediately ask her to come back to your house…
She makes you out to be the funniest guy alive
Do people ever tell you that you should become a Stand-Up Comedian? Probably not. So when a girl is always laughing at your lame ass jokes, it’s a good sign she’s into you. As long as the laugh isn’t followed by an eye roll. If she rolls her eyes, she may be laughing AT you. That would NOT be a good sign. Women naturally laugh at any joke told by a guy they’re into. It is their way of showing him that she finds him attractive. Pay attention to how she laughs at your jokes. If the laughs seem genuine, she’s digging you. If they seem forced and fake, it’s a sign she’s not into you and is giving a courtesy laugh.
She can’t keep her hands off of you
It’s very simple – when a woman likes a man, she’ll do anything she can to make physical contact with him. It may be just a soft tap on the arm, a hug, or shifting her body so she touches your body ever so lightly. But she will do something to make at least minimal physical contact. If she doesn’t like you, she will make sure there’s a distance between you two. Shy girls will almost always keep a slight distance because they lack confidence to make contact. So you’re going to have to be the one initiating contact with a shy girl. If she backs off, it’s a sign she doesn’t like you. If she goes with it, you’re good to go.
She’s the one that brings sex into the conversation
It’s pretty much a guarantee that you will talk about your sexual desires online or via SMS before meeting. If she has no interest in continuing that discussion on your date, it’s likely she’s not as into your offline game as much as she was your online game. Again, this isn’t a sign you’ll pick up from a shy girl. You’ll have to be the one bringing sex into the conversation. If she doesn’t try to avoid the topic, that means she’s down to fuck. If she’s more outgoing and direct, you probably won’t even have to bring sex into the discussion. She’ll likely be the one to bring it up if she’s horny for you.